Wednesday, June 25, 2014

48 Hours of Priceless Lessons

Dear blog, after 5 months of Bangla life, I finally escaped home for a vacation of a few weeks. Back to home, back to where I belong... nothing beats this feeling, it simply is priceless. But the journey I had to endure to reach home itself is another valuable life lesson. The experience I gained during the trip has surely helped me grow a great deal. Promises, trust, responsibility, hope, desperation, management I could name a hundred things that went through my head in that trip of 48 hours from my apartment in Chittagong to my house in Matale. But I regret non of it, I regret non of the decisions I made.

It all began when I got my passport from the university management on the 11th of June; until that very moment going home for this vacation was nothing more than a desperate dream for us. Gracian, my flatmate, took matters into hand and booked tickets to go home for the five of us, me and my flatmates, through an agent it Dhaka who is an acquaintance of his dads. Despite my dads early suggestion of taking a flight from Chittagong to Sri Lanka, I agreed to Gracians plan of flying from Dhaka to Bangkok and then to Sri Lanka which happens to be less costly. Just when we were about to confirm our tickets, Ahsan, a friend of mine, called and asked if his group can join ours. We contacted the agent in Dhaka and were relieved when he said there were more tickets available to fly on the 15th of June. And so our group of five expanded to that of sixteen. 

The next pressing issue was travelling to Dhaka from Chittagong. Sixteen is quite a number and train tickets to Dhaka should be booked at least ten days before departure. Time was against us and we had to seek other means and do so fast. Thanks to the corrupt Bangladeshi railway officials, a senior agreed to arrange 16 tickets for us through the black market. We had to pay that day itself and hence I heeded that request for travelling by bus would be far less comfortable and unreliable. 

Just as everything seemed perfect, the agent from Dhaka called with awful news; seats for all sixteen of us will not be confirmed until 9.30 the previous morning. There was also the issue of paying the agent in Dhaka from Chittagong. We had to transfer money of 16 students from Sri Lanka to Chittagong and from Chittagong to Dhaka and do so as soon as possible. I felt like my timing had never been worse for there were two days of public holidays in Sri Lanka followed by a Friday, a holiday in Bangladesh, carrying out the transaction seemed impossible. However the agent agreed to figure out some way for us to make the payment from Sri Lanka itself.

I was immediately put into a spot of bother for I had bought train tickets for everyone paying double the amount since it was from the black market. I called the senior, Irshad nana to see if there is anything we could do about the tickets in case the flight was cancelled. Irshad nana suggested another idea which seemed like a life line at that time. He said a friend of his could arrange tickets to fly through Malaysia for the same rate and on the same day so that our train tickets would not be a waste. We had to spend an extra 100 BDT to change the train tickets from 15th morning to 15th night. At this point, that seemed to be the best option for all of us, I discussed the issue with Gracian, Javid and Ahsan and decided to switch our plan. We had both the options open though, either fly through Bangkok by Gracian's agent or through Malaysia. So we asked Irshad nana to book us the tickets.

After a sleepless night, Irshad nana called me with good news that the tickets had been confirmed and asked all our parents to transfer the money to his brothers account in the morning of previous day. Since its his brother who was handling the cash, we agreed and asked our parents to carryout the transaction. On the same day, Gracian's agent called saying that the tickets for our plan A were available. We went with Irshad nana's plan since we had already paid him the money and even if we hadn't, paying the other agent would take some extra work. It seemed easier to stick to our new plan and so we did. We informed the rest of the sixteen the new travel route and promised that our flight details will arrive soon.

I spent that night at Javid's place, awaiting the new tickets. Yet another sleepless night for we had a bad feeling about the whole thing and there was no sign of the e tickets. Irshad nana was doing his best but it proved to be not enough. We waited the whole night, felt anxiety and pressure like I had never felt before for it was the money of sixteen parents who trust us. We received a call from Irshad nana in the morning of 14th June, he asked us to meet him at his place to discuss about something. Javid, Ahsan and I rushed to meet him, one look at his face and we knew what he had to say. Something had gone wrong and we would not be flying through Malaysia. He asked us to give him some time to find an alternate way and gave his word that he would return our money on that day itself if we want. I honestly can not put to words what we felt that very moment. We asked him to keep trying and that we would too.

Meanwhile, the rest of the sixteen kept pressuring us, asking for the flight details. We chose to hold the truth to prevent panic. Only a few of us knew what truly was going on. Each of us had to answer our parents for the money has already been transferred and we were held responsible. We had to turn to Gracian's agent again. Gracian reluctantly contacted him for a second time and he confirmed the possibility of a route and asked us to confirm the passenger list as soon as possible. We had just sent him the list when Irshad nana called with a possible route through Bangkok on the same day which would deem our train tickets useful once again. We decided to trust Irshad nana despite all the odds and finally the gamble paid off. Javid, Ahsan and I along with Irshad nana went to meet an agent in Chittagong. Irshad nana had our cash in BDT, we paid the agent for our tickets from Chittagong to Bangkok. We were to fly through Regent airways, a local Bangladeshi airlines. We had booked tickets from Bangkok to Colombo via another agent in Sri Lanka, it was all very complicated. By the night of 14th July, we had all our tickets in hand and it truly appeared nothing could go wrong, we thought it was all well settled; little did we know that the worst was yet to come.

We arranged a van to take the girls and our luggage to the station. Leaving the house at 9 PM on the 15th, the guys took "threewheels" to the station. Javid, Ronald and I took were in one. We had an early start to the sufferings as our driver dropped us off at the wrong station. Being new to Chittagong and having a schedule to follow, we had to undergo some trouble and panic finding the right station. Since the tickets were not completely legit, we had to sit in different compartments. A couple of friends helped us get settled in the train, it truly helped a lot and the train started moving sharp at 11 PM.

The train journey was smooth and soothing until it got to an unusual halt at Comilla. We were told that the train had suffered an engine failure and they were uncertain of the time required to fix it. Although we had six hours between of ETA in Dhaka and the flight to Bangkok, we were all tensed about the delay. It took them three whole hours to get the train running. Despite the delay, we were relieved when the compartment started rocking again. We entered the Dhaka international airport a couple of hours before our schedule.

We had a short breakfast and boarded in quickly. The flight was scheduled to leave Dhaka at 12 noon. We were seated, awaiting the signal for us to get into the flight. Time started rolling, and I developed a really bad feeling. At about 1 PM we were informed that there had been a delay in the flight due to engine failure and it will be leaving at 11 PM on the same night. That would make us miss our flight to Colombo from Bangkok. Regent airways took no responsibility what so ever since it was a small time budget airlines. It all felt too real, like there was no way out, all of our parents' money down the drain. But Irshad nana took charge, made some calls in search of a new way out.

After a couple of hopeless hours, Irshad nana had found a solution. He booked us the next flight from Bangkok to Sri Lanka and it would cost us a little penalty charge. Despite the fact that we would have to spend half a day rotting in the airport, we all were relieved that we managed a way out, Alhamdulillah. I kept my dad updated, we all informed our parents. Time moved awfully slow in the boarding lounge of Dhaka international airways. The free wifi was the only silver lining lol. We finally got into the flight at 10.30 PM and I fell asleep immediately. I was in Thailand when I woke up, we all were dead tired.

We walked into the gorgeous Swarnabhumi Airport, Thailand. More trouble awaited us when we went to clear our baggage. Since we booked through different agents, we had to clear our baggage on our owns and the officials held us and asked us to get visa. More panic and tension was added to our already heavy heads. But we talked to the help desk and they arranged us to meet some Sri Lankan airlines staff. Their service was remarkably good. They made arrangements for the baggage transfer and that issue was solved without much effort. We spent six hours in transit, I slept through most of it and woke up with fever. We boarded our final flight and a three hour flight took us home.

The feeling of landing in Sri Lanka was exquisite. A strong sense of belonging, it is impossible to put to words. My mom, dad and little sister received me at the airport, I would go through ten times as much trouble for that reunion. Nevertheless, I do not regret a single decision I made. It was one hell of a ride from day one.




Friday, April 11, 2014

#Champions

I've been meaning to write this post for 5 days now and today I finally am blessed with the time to do it! 5 days has it been since we earned the T20 world cup... Woah what a night that was! After failing in 5 world cup finals since 1996, we finally have succeeded. I have never felt any prouder than I was that moment to be Sri Lankan.

I was lucky enough to attend a must win match against New Zealand which turned out to be an absolutely insane cricketing experience of all time. We were made to bat first and were limited to 119 runs. 119 in general is not considered a winning total yet the Lions stood strong and confident, we cheered on as our heroes fought. It was Rangana Herath who spearheaded the Lankan counterattack; taking 5 wickets giving away just 3 runs. We bowled the Kiwis out for 60 runs. It by far is the best victory that I've ever witnessed in the Lankan cricket history.



That match ensured our entry into the semi finals which was against the fierce West Indians. It was yet another tough game for they were the defending champions. But that did not stop the Lions from going forth in the tournament. Finally we had to face the mighty cricketing giants, India in a final which would yield us the piece of silverware that 20 million hearts had been yearning for for the last decade and a half!

I will not forget that great night of fun. My friends and I gathered on the 6th of April 2014 to watch the match together. It was a nervous encounter for both parties. We won the toss and chose to field. India did well with the bat up until the 15th over but the whole situation changed in the last 5 overs. We were able to limit them to 130 runs and from then on it was Sri Lanka all the way. That was an emotional match not only because its a world cup final, but also because it would be the last T20 international of two of the worlds best cricketers of all time and my most favorite players, Sangakkara and Mahela! The whole country wanted so badly to see them leave the T20 stage in style which they did and did very well. Sangakkara's glorious knock of 52 from 39 balls crushed the Indian dreams earning Sri Lanka her first and well deserved T20 world cup. Now that its ours, we do not want to let go :D.

Saturday, January 25, 2014

New Place... New Venture...

Dear blog, there comes a time when every bird has to leave its nest in search of a life of its own (Yeah the metaphor does sound pretty gay). That time is upon me; although it came a bit late than normal. I moved to Bangladesh in order to study medicine at the University of Science & Technology, Chittagong. It has been a week since I got here and I already have acquired plenty of useful experiences.

I arrived at Chittagong accompanied by my dad on the 18th of January. We were welcomed warmly by the senior Sri Lankan students studying in USTC. They helped us pick our luggage and had arranged transportation as well. My first impression of Bangladesh was not a dear memory to me. I was already missing home as I peaked through the shutters of the moving van. Huge city, over populated, pollution, less sanitation and an extensive traffic were the key words describing Chittagong to me at that time. After a drive of an hour, we arrived at our apartments.

Then came the second shock. Five other guys and I were assigned to an awful apartment. It was over 2 km from the university and was covered in dust. There were plenty of other deficiencies too. Now the seniors had put plenty of hard work into finding us this place, arranging us the immediate necessities and to help us get settled down. Out of respect to their hard work, we decided to live there. Later that evening, a student of my mom's visited us and she was as shocked as we were looking at the condition of our abode. She had already arranged another apartment for us but discarded it since it had so many rules. But now the rules seemed bearable compared to the state of our apartment at that time. So my dad and her went out to checkout this new place, it gave me hope when I heard the possibility of moving into a better place.

USTC: As seen from our flat
Good news arrived the very next day. All five of us preferred moving to a new place and we took the seniors' consent out of respect for what they did for us. All of us went to the new apartment to have a look. The place looked like heaven compared to the other apartment. It was a couple of minutes away from the university too. We arranged the move as soon as possible. A senior helped us arrange transportation; rickshaws with larger compartments. We could move all of our stuff for a very cheap rate. Signing the agreement with the land lady, moving in, buying stuff for the apartment in a foreign place, adapting to the new environment, everything is new to me, very useful experiences indeed. As days passed by, I can feel myself settling down slowly. Bangladesh is not as bad as it appeared at first, the people are friendly, am learning their language and getting better at it :D.

My dad stayed with me for about 5 days to help me get started. I am eternally thankful to be gifted with such a family, Alhamdulillah. I'm excited about the new journey I've embarked on. May Allah grant me the knowledge and power to get through this course with success. Now am sitting in my room, counting on my days to start my studies... more importantly to finish them well and to return home, to where I truly belong. I do miss home very much, I miss my family and friends. But, like I said, every bird has to leave its nest one day.